February 8th, 2010
While I was out and about on Sunday with my wife and son, I realized how crowded the mall parking lot was. Wow, (you say to yourself) “He was out at the mall and not to church?” Yes, I was. It was great to just get out for a bit, get some fresh air and enjoy being with them. Back to the crowded mall story; my son and I noticed how crowded the place was and we both were thinking, maybe they got out of church early? I then though, well I’d better hurry up, get what I came for and leave before the churches let out and I’m stuck in traffic. Continue Reading…
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February 8th, 2010
The body of Christ is made up of many members. The church, is made up of many born again believers of whom God have given gifts and talents to. These gifts and talents are not for entertainment purposes, but they are for serving the body of Christ. Do all members have the same office? No, do all have the gift of teaching or preaching? No. Each members of the body of Christ has a function and a purpose. We often hear our functions and purposes referred to as gifts.
Every now and them, I think many believers get so caught up on the or gifts, they think their gift is far superior than anyone. The believer that prophesies will need to partake of the gift of healing or benefit from someones giving. In Romans the 12th chapter, Paul urges the saints at Rome (Romans 1:7) to present them selves as a living and holy sacrifice (Romans 12:1) Continue Reading…
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February 7th, 2010
In my earlier post “Go Saints” I was actually thinking of an analogy, something to encourage the people of God. When I was out earlier in the day, my wife told me that the New Orleans Saints were playing in the Super Bowl. I actually forgot who was in the Super Bowl because I’m not a real sports enthusiast, I’m more of the technology type.
After more than 44 years and this was the NFL teams first time in the super bowl, the New Orleans Saints. Sometimes you may wonder, when your time is, when will you see the light at the end of the tunnel, sometimes you might lose control of the (ball) situation and regain it later in the game, you may even get an interception if you don’t loose hope. Everything does not always go in the favor of the opposing team. Continue Reading…
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February 7th, 2010
I couldn’t resist the opportunity to root for the saints on this particular day. I realize that many of you might not be sports fans but I wanted to acknowledged the fact that we contend with many issues during the day but in the end we win and before it starts, we’ve won because of the team we’re on. We have an amazing head coach and only one referee whose constantly doing an outstanding job no matter what the play is.
Yes it may be superbowl Sunday and one of the playing teams happens to be the Saints. The saints that I am refering to in today’s post are the pople of God. While you may be rooting for your favorite football team, daily I’m rooting for the people of God that endure the harships and difficulties that we face every day. Be encouraged and of God cheer, Jesus Christ has overcome!
Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, (Jude 1:24) KJV
Go Saints of God!
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February 5th, 2010
Some people will not attend your church, some people will not listen to your message of salvation nor will they change the way they live, act or think.
That is just the way it is, believers should not get caught up in battling with people over religion, my church is the way, my bishop is the best, our Sunday school teachers are the best, we have the best choir and much more. I realize that many believers are passionate about the Gospel of Jesus Christ but you cannot make someone believe or change because you say. Continue Reading…
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February 5th, 2010
As I was preparing for today’s post, I thought I would simply post Romans 12. I wanted to share something from Romans 12:9 and I will at a later time, but for now I hope you find this chapter of Romans inspiring and a reminder to the principle duties of believers, I was reminded. Continue Reading…
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February 4th, 2010
When was the last time you told someone, “Thank you for caring”.
When was the last time you spent time with someone to show you care?
When was the last time you encouraged someone who was discouraged?
When was the last time you stopped and meditated on the Goodness of God?
When was the last time you gave a kind word, a smile, a listening ear to some that needed it?
The church has become so busy worshiping, preachers have become so busy doing ministry, the mission is overlooked; the mission of reaching out to pull someone in. Our careers , our Ministries, the thrill of having a microphone in your hands or a pulpit to stand in has superseded the needs of hurting people. Most of these hurting people came from the church. If God cares about how they feel, how much more should the evangelist, elder, pastor care and then do something about it. The responsibility of ministering, encouraging, exhorting is not just for the leadership positions in the church.
People have real pains, real concerns, real issues and having a real person that will share with them some kind words that will give them hope. Many people will not step foot in your church or sit in your prayer meeting, these people can not be written off and forgotten. I was always taught from my youth up that only what you do for Jesus Christ will last, I understand that to mean, what I do for Jesus Christ will have a lasting impact on the life that is touched. This blog is what I do. Sharing and talking to people is what I do. There are many churches that are resistant to technology on a technology age ( i cant figure that out) More people can be reached, more people can be inspired in 1 hour (via the internet) than on a single Sunday morning service.
If you have been inspired by this blog and your were provoked to thinking outside the religious box, and you turned to Gods word for answers, let us know here at Going Against The Grain, It means so much to us.
Matthew 5
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February 4th, 2010
Many people are dissatisfied with their church and when they get really tire of all the drama, they leave. There are valid reasons to leave the place where you fellowship. It is not the ultimate sin (its not a sin at all) to want to go somewhere else, where you can worship God without being shackled by dos and don’t s. To many believers are petrified and fearful in deciding to leave the church (leaving the place of fellowship). My question to you is this, are you leaving the church or simply relocating? There is a big difference, did you know?
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February 4th, 2010
Matthew 5:13 “You are the salt of the earth. But what good is salt if it has lost its flavor? Can you make it salty again? It will be thrown out and trampled underfoot as worthless. (N.L.T)
Christians are often referred to as sheep in scripture. Jesus Christ makes mention and reference to His people as sheep in Psalms 100:3. I often wonder how do we see ourselves as Gods people? When we are together in the company of other believers it seems that getting along is difficult because we disagree on so much and the danger in this is, how the world perceives us.
Perception is everything, if one perceives they can trust you, they will act accordingly. If someone perceives that danger is present that will act according to what they are convinced of. You don’t need many spoken facts to acquire a the perception of a matter, just observe long enough and what you see often tells enough of the story. There was a time when Christians were a people of distinct character and manner. You could spot a believer by their speech and their conduct. Their work ethic was remarkable, they were the best tenants in an apartment, their kids were good kids. Continue Reading…
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February 4th, 2010
Your probably thinking this post is about what Christ said in John 14:6. Your close but, maybe I will elude to it later because it has much relevance to this post. Religion can be a misleading in the life of a person who does not understand what they believe and why then believe it.
Attending or having membership in a specific denomination of the Christian faith is no guarantee of eternal life nor is it a reflection of ones relationship with Jesus Christ. Pastors and elders are merely servants of Jesus Christ and the Gospel, that’s what the Apostle Paul identified himself as in Romans 1:1. Continue Reading…
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February 3rd, 2010
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February 3rd, 2010
Matthew 18:20 – For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.” (NIV)
I thought I would start this post off with the above scripture to encourage people that if you don’t make it to the meeting place (church) during the designated time of worship, Jesus Christ will meet you where you are. When in doubt, just return to the above scripture and read it again. I can remember many of Sunday mornings that I did not take my family to church, we stayed at home and worshiped together. I realize the idea of this would make most Pastors uncomfortably, but there is no sin in that.
Religious people will say, “Doesn’t scripture say; Forsake not the assembling of yourselves together”? (Hebrews 10:25). You are correct, it does say that, now my question would then be, What Does It Mean? You can’t apply this scripture to the one that missed Sunday Service, nor can you apply it to the one who hasn’t been their in months. Let me explain: To forsake means: to abandon; to abandon with the intention of never returning. Who else would know your intentions unless you state them, who else would know your intentions but you and God.
When you have decided that, you will no longer be in the company of believers, you have forsaken the assembling of yourself together, with the saints, you have also abandoned the fellowship of believers; it is this, that the scripture (Hebrews 10:25) says to do not.
I believe that we should meet, I believe that we should fellowship and come together. The purpose of coming together is to encourage, inspire each other. Hebrews says to: “exhort one another…”. Fellowship is what keeps us strong and on track. I realize this is what God expect from us (assemble ourselves together). What makes it so terribly difficult are the leaders that think church members exist to server them, we are there to support, encourage, exhort, be an example to each other; we serve one another.
Where there are two or more people gathered together in the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus said that He would be in their midst. Worshiping with your family , your husband or wife or two friends is the basic form of fellowship (it is fellowship) and fellowship is what God requires. It is when you decide to be an island and that you can make it on your own is where you will run into problems.
How can any one person determine that you has forsaken the assembling of yourself with the saints, when you have missed 5 Sundays out of the 52 in the year? I’ve had fellowship with believers in isle 3 of a department store and we started with two and it grew to a crowd of five of us sharing and talking about the goodness of God.
You can fellowship anywhere! In that case, the church (the five that were present) met in a department store and we lifted up the name of Christ for twenty or so minutes and went on our way rejoicing.
Fellowship, don’t forsake it, it only takes a minimum of two.
(Disclaimer: Do not use this post as your justification to stop meeting with the saints or use this post to justify consistently meeting with the same person, you need to meet with other saints so that you can be challenged to grow and be a well rounded and spiritually mature believer.)
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February 3rd, 2010
You don’t have to be in a church to pray, what if its too far away? You don’t have to be on your knees to pray, you can do it standing up, or siting down and even from your bed before you open your eyes. Its the position of your heart that matters. You can pray with outstretched hands or hands down at your side. A prayer can be said with your eyes open (this helps if your driving), most prefer to have them closed to avoid distractions. Some pray out loud, some find a quiet place, prayer is not complicated, you don’t need fancy words and you can pray anytime in anyplace; you don’t have to schedule a meeting for it either.
We can get so caught up in attending prayer meetings and vigils that we forget to spend some alone time with God. When you have the desire to pray, but your are short of words, that’s okay too, just be silent and think about the goodness of God, take that moment of silence before Him.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 – Pray without ceasing
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February 2nd, 2010
People attend church for many reasons, some feel obligated and others go simply because some asked them to. But, how can you attend something that’s not a place? Going to church is not about paying your respect, although Jesus Christ died, the bible teaches that “He rose again the third day according to the scripture”. The church is a great place to meet people, although its not a social club, but in the process of going you meet people of like passions, like beliefs.
Church seems to be the place that people go to in order to hear what the preacher has to say. Hopefully something inspiring will be said and that something was inspired by Gods Holy Word. Many parent get their kid up and drop them off at the church so that can be taught something, so that when the parents return to take them home, they act better that they did the day before. Although with the many issues some churches are having, I’m not sure you want to drop them off, stay with them, know what they are being taught. Continue Reading…
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February 1st, 2010
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February 1st, 2010
It was a beautiful Sunday morning, everything seemed to go just fine in the Sunday school and even the start of the morning service seem to put the saints in the spirit of unity and worship. I remember as a young man how worship services had a special meaning to my mother. I can remember how the people were reflective of their week and thankful to God for His many blessings.
Attending Church had a special meaning during those years, it was quite different from the time we experience in the corporate worship services today. Modesty and humility were the hallmark of Godly men and women then and so much has chanced in this century. At the risk of stirring up a hornets nest (and I’m not calling anyone a hornet) I realize that some of my readers may not agree nor appreciate this post in particular. Continue Reading…
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February 1st, 2010
While growing up in the City of Philadelphia, enjoying the morning church service was something to really think about for days to come. The move of the spirit, people being saved, healed, encouraged and set free. No matter how bad your week was, fellowship with Gods people was a real encouragement and your spirit was lifted by the time worship was over. There was such a spirit of reverence and respect for the place in which the saints gathered together for worship.
More than 30 years ago, we didn’t have the ability to stream video from cell phones (we had pay phones) we could not text, tweet or communicate instantly during the service, but we could pass notes and whisper or ask the usher to pass the note or meet in the back of the church to pass on a message quietly. Continue Reading…
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January 31st, 2010
Once again, thank you for taking the time to read the articles here at Going Against The Grain. January was a great month , we started off with a bang and more than 30 posts were written and there is more to come.
I hope you have found this site both inspirational and thought provoking. If so, please sign the guest book and or make your comments to this post, I look forward to hearing from you.
I’m interested to see what February has to bring. Don’t for get to pray for the nation of Haiti.
God Bless.
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